{"id":497,"date":"2020-08-30T09:14:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-30T14:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/?p=497"},"modified":"2025-01-22T07:30:14","modified_gmt":"2025-01-22T15:30:14","slug":"how-to-be-truly-authentic-in-your-romantic-relationship-whats-your-love-language","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/es\/posts\/how-to-be-truly-authentic-in-your-romantic-relationship-whats-your-love-language\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Be Truly Authentic in Your Romantic Relationship + What\u2019s Your Love Language?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">This blog is part one of a four-part series on Authenticity in Relationships. Keep your eye out for some valuable lessons on how you can improve your relationship.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>What does it mean to be authentic? Words like truthfulness, genuineness, real, believable, etc. may be swirling around in your head. All those words are related to authenticity. Now, how would you apply that to relationships?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people would say that being authentic in a relationship means being faithful, not being deceptive and not skirting around issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"940\" height=\"788\" src=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-1.png\" alt=\"A couple lies on a bed, wrapped in a beige blanket. The woman rests her head on the mans chest, while he embraces her with a calm expression. Both are casually dressed, and the setting exudes warmth and intimacy.\" class=\"wp-image-499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-1.png 940w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-1-300x251.png 300w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-1-768x644.png 768w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-1-700x587.png 700w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-1-250x210.png 250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>As a therapist, a common problem I encounter when working with couples is communication issues. Surprisingly, the root of this often stems from one or more partners being afraid to show their authentic self. Many couples may not know how to be authentic, so I\u2019m here to help you understand what that can look like.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How to Be More Authentic in Relationships<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Never forget that you\u2019re on the same team<\/strong><br>Perfect relationships don\u2019t exist. As much as movies and the media like to sell us the idea of a flawless, always passionate romance, we know that real life is a much different reality. Arguments and disagreements are inevitable, but they\u2019re normal&nbsp;<em>within reason<\/em>. One of the worst things you can do in your relationships is to adopt a \u201cme vs them\u201d mindset. When you\u2019re in a couple, you are playing on the same team. It\u2019s easy to be on the defensive when your partner starts pointing out you doing something they didn\u2019t like, and you retaliate in defense.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Think of the act of blaming as a storm. Once the initial thunder occurs, then the rain pours and floods the area. Afterwards you realize you can\u2019t take back what happened or what you said, and now you\u2019re left to clean up the mess. When you get frustrated with your partner, take a moment and think about what you\u2019re about to say. Is the purpose of what you\u2019re going to say meant to harm your partner? Are you trying to be right or do you have a genuine concern that needs to be addressed? Arguments aren\u2019t pretty, but they can be constructive when couples communicate in a direct, fair and calm manner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"940\" height=\"788\" src=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-2.png\" alt=\"A man and woman sit together by a window, both wearing casual white tops. The woman is holding a mug and leaning affectionately on the mans shoulder, looking out. The atmosphere is calm and intimate.\" class=\"wp-image-500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-2.png 940w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-2-300x251.png 300w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-2-768x644.png 768w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-2-700x587.png 700w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-2-250x210.png 250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Set your boundaries<\/strong><br>It\u2019s never too late to set your boundaries. As relationships evolve, so do you as an individual. As you grow as a person, your beliefs may change and so will your mindset. While you may have been tolerant of certain comments or behaviors in the past, it\u2019s perfectly normal to change your mind. Your partner may be surprised at you reestablishing your boundaries, but being transparent about these new boundaries may help prevent potential conflicts from happening. Encourage your partner to be open as well about what they need to thrive in the relationship and feel even more comfortable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"940\" height=\"788\" src=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-3.png\" alt=\"An elderly couple, smiling and embracing, stands in front of lush green foliage. The man wears glasses and a jacket, and the woman is dressed warmly. Sunlight filters through the leaves, creating a cheerful, serene atmosphere.\" class=\"wp-image-501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-3.png 940w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-3-300x251.png 300w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-3-768x644.png 768w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-3-700x587.png 700w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-3-250x210.png 250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Be Each Other\u2019s Confidante<\/strong><br>No matter how long you\u2019ve been together as a couple, whether it\u2019s been 2 months or 20+ years, you have to be able to trust each other. That means being clear on what is shared outside of your relationship and with whom. Sharing confidential information can break down relationships and lead to distrust between partners. It might be tempting to share good news with family and friends, but if it needs to be kept under wraps for a while (such as a pregnancy, promotion, or prospective move) then remember to respect your partner\u2019s wishes. When the time is right and you can announce the news together, it will make the sharing of the news even more special.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"940\" height=\"788\" src=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-4.png\" alt=\"A couple embraces on a beach at sunset, standing close to the water with gentle waves in the background. The sky is light pink, and they appear peaceful and content.\" class=\"wp-image-502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-4.png 940w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-4-300x251.png 300w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-4-768x644.png 768w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-4-700x587.png 700w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-4-250x210.png 250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Explore a New Sense of Authenticity<\/strong><br>Sometimes to strengthen a relationship, you need to tread new waters together. This can be as small as trying a new activity together, or taking the brave step to seek&nbsp;couples therapy. Incorporating new hobbies can be exciting and show you new sides to your partner that you haven\u2019t seen before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"940\" height=\"788\" src=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-5.png\" alt=\"A smiling couple sits on a cozy couch, watching TV together. The man holds a remote control, and the woman rests her head on his shoulder, appearing relaxed and comfortable.\" class=\"wp-image-503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-5.png 940w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-5-300x251.png 300w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-5-768x644.png 768w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-5-700x587.png 700w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-5-250x210.png 250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A common tool that is used to help couples make sense of what they want out of relationships is understanding their \u201clove languages\u201d. You can take it for free at this link&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.5lovelanguages.com\/quizzes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.5lovelanguages.com\/quizzes\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What are Love Languages?&nbsp;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.5lovelanguages.com\/book\/the-5-love-languages\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Love languages<\/a>&nbsp;are a concept developed by Dr. Gary Chapman, back in 1992. These \u201clanguages\u201d are the way we express love and how we\u2019d like to receive these acts of love. There are 5 primary languages couples have:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Words of Affirmation:<\/strong>&nbsp;This is when a partner uses positive verbal communication to express their love. This can include frequent compliments, being encouraging, saying \u201cI love you\u201d often, and reassurance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Quality Time:<\/strong>&nbsp;This act is shown through the dedication of someone spending time with their partner. These people are often great listeners, give their undivided attention to their partners, and relish each other\u2019s company.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Acts of Service:<\/strong>&nbsp;The people who favor acts of service perform duties that benefit their partner, typically to alleviate stress. This can include cooking, doing chores without prompting, or running an errand for their partner.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Gifts:<\/strong>&nbsp;This one is self-explanatory. Gifts don\u2019t have to be grandiose, but are often frequently given to a partner. Food is a common gift given between partners!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Touch:<\/strong>&nbsp;Physical touch is a popular love language that is important to many couples. While some partners recoil at touch, many crave these types of interactions. Kissing, handholding, and hugging are common behaviors in touch-centric enthusiasts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"940\" height=\"788\" src=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-6.png\" alt=\"Two individuals wearing casual clothing stand facing each other, smiling, in an embrace under a canopy of tall, green bamboo.\" class=\"wp-image-504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-6.png 940w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-6-300x251.png 300w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-6-768x644.png 768w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-6-700x587.png 700w, https:\/\/stillwaterscounsel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/authenticity-relationships-6-250x210.png 250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Which love language are you most in tune with and how you do practice being your authentic self in your relationship? Are you aware of your partner\u2019s love language, and are you comfortable speaking their language to them?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Keep your eye on for next week\u2019s article, where I\u2019ll be talking about using vulnerability in your relationship to take it to the next level.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you and your partner would like to privately discuss ways to improve your communication and needs within your relationship, please don\u2019t hesitate to reach me. Thank you for reading!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This blog is part one of a four-part series on Authenticity in Relationships. Keep your eye out for some valuable lessons on how you can improve your relationship. What does it mean to be authentic? Words like truthfulness, genuineness, real, believable, etc. may be swirling around in your head. 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